Friday, January 13, 2012

Planning a second...

You had the time of your life in your first hangout/date. You learnt little more about your crush and he/she seems more interested in you. Now you should be thinking about planning a second hangout/date. All though they are do’s and don’ts you need to watch out for on a second hangout/date.

You can proceed with the second hangout/date only if you’re truly interested in the other person. Look out for sings that your crush is as interested as you are. This includes if your crush answers your phones calls or texts and shows interest when you talk about meeting up again. Planning a second hangout/date shouldn’t be a problem. When you’re on your second hangout/date try to open up a bit more and try to have more fun around with your crush. Making your crush laugh always works and breaks the ice more easily. Try telling funny stories about your life and take your relationship to the next level.

Try to do something different for your second hangout/date. If you went for a dinner in your first hangout/date, go for a walk or drive around town for your second. Remember, to try doing something different every time that way it doesn’t get boring for your crush or you. Going to a cafĂ© wouldn’t be a bad option either. The best thing about coffee shops is that you can sit for long hours over a cup of coffee, without the staff bothering you. It is the best way for your crush and you to get to know each other better. Always remember to never indulge in anything that looks unnatural or forced. Be comfortable and your date would automatically be comfortable.  Make sure you are relaxed and stress-free. Remember, it is now that the two of you would establish whether or not you wish to continue the relationship or not. Being relaxed would allow you to think freely and have open hearted conversation.  
Lastly, enjoy your hangout/date to the fullest. It is only when you enjoy the time spend with your crush that you miss your crush and want to meet them again. Remember, no date is better than a boring date!!! So just feel free and enjoy - who knows both of you could click together!

2 comments:

  1. In my opinion, I think a second date is great if you really like the person because in shows that your interested in them and you would like to get to know them better. It also creates an opportunity to get to make a relationship more worth keeping if you really trust the guy or girl.

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