Break ups, you break it off

There are many reasons why you would want to break up with your partner or love one.  The reason could be they upset you by cheating on you or lying to you.  Also you may not feel the same as you felt when you first started dating.  You feel more like they’re a friend than a partner.  Before breaking up with them you should ask yourself, what they did that makes you feel like you want to break up.  Is it worth going through the pain?  How will you make the other person feel? Will it be easy to do? Can you get past what they have done and forgive them?  If you can’t then it is not fair to either of you to stay in the relationship.  If you decide to go ahead and break up, you should tell them gently, in a private place and expect a reaction.  Especially if they don’t have a clue what you are about to say.  Try hard to ensure that the relationship ends on good terms.  Makes sure to be honest and considerate and not make your partner feel like they are worthless.  Try to make them understand your reasons and hopefully you can walk away still caring about each other.