Break ups, they break it off

Break ups are usually caused by arguments or upsetting situations.  The break up is handled differently by everybody.  Some people keep it to themselves and don’t talk about.  Others need to vent and get out.  It is important to remember that you once loved this person and not to lose yourself in the break up.  If you once truly cared about this person, don’t go around talking bad about them.  There are many ways to ease the pain.  You can talk with friends; talk with your parents or someone you trust.  It is important not to keep things bottled up because it will just make it worst.  If you spent a lot of time with this person, you will feel empty, bored, like you have no friends and nothing to do.  That’s why it is important to surround yourself with friends who care about you and make sure to have plans to do things together.  It is easier sometimes to get over them quickly by getting rid of the things that remind you of them such as gifts, pictures or clothes.  Once the initial shock is over, you’ll feel better and the pain will slowly go away.  There is no way of making it go away faster that is why it is important to deal with the pain and move on when you feel ready.