Making plans with the person you like.

Everyone wants to hangout with their crush but you don't want it getting awkward. To make sure that it doesn't get awkward, I would suggest to try making plans with a small group of friends and invite your crush along. Make sure it’s something that they would like to do and that they would get along with the others. Ensure the group is a small group of four to six people.  This will make sure that you won't get lost in the crowd or lose opportunities to talk to your crush. If all goes well, your crush would enjoy themselves enough to do it again or even decide to go on a date with you.  Your first date should probably involve going to the movies or buy tickets to a major sporting event such as football, baseball or basketball.  You could also go to a concert that your crush would like to go to (If you really want to impress your crush, get tickets to a popular sold-out event).  Other ideas would be to go bowling or you can attend a festival that's in town.  How you shoud behave on the first date is to always be yourself.  The number one thing to do is be yourself, don't pretent to be someone else.  Try to be a good listener make sure to answer honestly if asked a question. Also make sure to always to smile, be happy and mostly have fun. These suggestions are ways to make sure to have a good time with your crush. Good luck!!!

Being friends with the one you like.

If you like someone and you want to ask them out, try being their friend first.  If you've never talk to them in your life, talking to them will help you to get to know them better and become friends. Starting a conversation with someone you like is very easy, but it might seem like it's the hardest thing in the world. To start a conversation with them is the same way you would start a conversation with one of your friends.  Start by saying ''Hey'', ''What's up?'' or if you've never met them before you walk over to them with a smile on your face and say ''Hi my name is ..., what's yours?'  This will give them a name to put to your face and give them something to remember and think about. Also if they remember your name and face, it will make it easier for them to approach you and start a conversation. But if they don't come talk to you, you can always go talk to them without appearing desperate to talk to them. You want to leave them with the impression that you just want a new friend. If you have classes with the person you like, try sitting next to him in class and talk to them. When a project is assigned try being their partner which will give you more opportunity to talk and get to know each other.  In the end, you will get to know each other better, maybe gain a new friend and possibly become more than friends.

To like or not to like? That is the question.

You have no control over who you like. Your heart just falls for whoever it wants. I've liked guys that I thought at first were very different from me, but after getting to know them, I've found out that we are more alike then I thought. We like doing the same things, such as playing the same sport or liking the same subject in school. I just found myself more like them and it made sense why my heart was attracted to them. It wasn't always easy to see why my heart felt the attraction.  At other times, we didn't have anything in common.  But not having anything in common is fine because some people say and think that opposites attracts. I feel that it would be difficult for people with different interests to get along. I think that people with at least a couple things in common would get along better.  Even if you don't have many things in common with the person you like, it gives you a chance to try different things and maybe you'll end up liking it as well. I think it's better to have a few things in common since it will mean you can spend more time together.  What would be even better is that by spending more time together his heart would feel the same as yours.  One of my interest is participating in a certain group which happens to also be the interest of a guy to which I'm attracted.  Even though my feelings for this guy is not known, we are getting to know each other better by attending the same activity.  Based on this information I may discover one day that he has the same feelings as me and if not I will still have made a very good friend.