Saturday, November 5, 2011

Making plans with the person you like.

Everyone wants to hangout with their crush but you don't want it getting awkward. To make sure that it doesn't get awkward, I would suggest to try making plans with a small group of friends and invite your crush along. Make sure it’s something that they would like to do and that they would get along with the others. Ensure the group is a small group of four to six people.  This will make sure that you won't get lost in the crowd or lose opportunities to talk to your crush. If all goes well, your crush would enjoy themselves enough to do it again or even decide to go on a date with you.  Your first date should probably involve going to the movies or buy tickets to a major sporting event such as football, baseball or basketball.  You could also go to a concert that your crush would like to go to (If you really want to impress your crush, get tickets to a popular sold-out event).  Other ideas would be to go bowling or you can attend a festival that's in town.  How you shoud behave on the first date is to always be yourself.  The number one thing to do is be yourself, don't pretent to be someone else.  Try to be a good listener make sure to answer honestly if asked a question. Also make sure to always to smile, be happy and mostly have fun. These suggestions are ways to make sure to have a good time with your crush. Good luck!!!

Being friends with the one you like.

If you like someone and you want to ask them out, try being their friend first.  If you've never talk to them in your life, talking to them will help you to get to know them better and become friends. Starting a conversation with someone you like is very easy, but it might seem like it's the hardest thing in the world. To start a conversation with them is the same way you would start a conversation with one of your friends.  Start by saying ''Hey'', ''What's up?'' or if you've never met them before you walk over to them with a smile on your face and say ''Hi my name is ..., what's yours?'  This will give them a name to put to your face and give them something to remember and think about. Also if they remember your name and face, it will make it easier for them to approach you and start a conversation. But if they don't come talk to you, you can always go talk to them without appearing desperate to talk to them. You want to leave them with the impression that you just want a new friend. If you have classes with the person you like, try sitting next to him in class and talk to them. When a project is assigned try being their partner which will give you more opportunity to talk and get to know each other.  In the end, you will get to know each other better, maybe gain a new friend and possibly become more than friends.